Something that's been bothering me are the words “and I don't care if you judge me” on blog posts. Don't get me wrong, I'm glad if one doesn't care to be judged. On the contrary, why focus on the people creating negativity in your life? The blogging environment is such an open-minded and kindhearted community. If we let ourselves set free, some people will love it and others will hate it. Those who hate it usually move along to the next post (if they're mature enough). This is something I love about blogging.
We all have to remind ourselves that everybody judges. Even you and I. We may do this subconsciously, quietly to ourselves, or aloud. It's part of human nature. We also have to remind ourselves that you can have those judge against you or for you. For example, you see an obese woman with a tube top and daisy dukes on in line at the grocery store. Some may think “what the hell is she doing wearing that trash?” while others may think “I give her a lot of credit for the confidence she has to wear such attire”.
Remember not to worry about who will look at you in the negative perspective. Think neutral each time you write. Just...write. Let go. Type everything you have to get out and post it. If you don't love what you write, that's another story. However, all that matters is what your judgment of yourself is. Easier written down, indeed, but if we all work at this it can be accomplished.